BFF [Best Friend Forever] & the Wedding

Icha's marriage

October 20th, 2013,

Finally the time has come, when we have to grow up, have our own way, and ended our teenager, being adult, and finally getting married. What a life we have to be through!

I almost cried when I wrote this, cha. When one of us should go and find their own way. I kept it in my heart. I know, you don't go anywhere, you just go with your destiny. then I realized that we have to do that, That is life, the real life. I was so moved by you, But I was so happy. finally you meet him, you half of life. I was so so happy to hear the good news, saw your wedding invitation, I never felt this way. That's why I didn't know what to say to you. I felt sorry for that. sorry for not hugging you when you brought me a great news. Just for the record, my bestfriend, I always pray the best for you. Because you are my friend, my best friend. 

My old friend, my classmate, my bestfriend, Icha was getting married in Jombang, Jawa Timur. I  surely (have) to go there. I went there by train with Afiah (sorry afiah, for forcing you to accompany me to go there). I departed from Jogja at 3 o'clock and arrived in Jombang at 8.30 pm. We directly went to the hotel Fatma (the hotel that Icha was already booked for us). then we took a rest while prepare for tomorrow.

The marriage settlement (akad nikah) was on the early morning at 7 o'clock. we already found the mosque on our way to hotel the last night from station. so we guessed that it didn't took a long time to go there.

Sampai di masjid, acara sudah dimulai. ternyata tepat jam 7 pagi acara akadnya dimulai, karen petugas KUA nya masih punya banyak jadwal. Kita ketemu sama icha di serambi masjid,ditemani kakak ipar dan bibinya. sedangkan pengantin laki-laki sedang didalam masjid untuk ijab kabul. I was so touched. terharu sekali melihat sahabat sendiri akhirnya mengakhiri masa lajangnya denga pria pilihannya. Icha dan Ka riski memang sudah kenal lama sejak SMA. Kisah cinta yang sangat lama hampi lebih dari 8 tahun. Finally they are back together in the wedding day.

Acara akad nikah selesai dan dilanjutkan dengan resepsi jam 11 siang di gedung sebelah masjid. Sederhana tapi terlihat sangat bahagia. Icha dan ka rizki mungkin memilih menikah di jombang karena tidak punya waktu untuk bolak balik ke Kupang dan mengurusi semuanya sedangkan mereka berdua kerja dan icha sambil kuliah juga. tapi itu yang bikin aku sedih karena sepertinya keluarga perempuan itu tidak ada yang datang kecuali memang keluarga dekatnya. tapi meskipun begitu mereka berdua terlihat sangat bahagia. Aku pun ikut bahagia melihat mereka.

happy wedding, Icha dan ka Rizki.

overall, Icha and ka Rizki, selamat berbahagia. congratulation for your wedding. semoga langgeng terus, jadi keluarga yang sakinah, mawaddah dan warrahmah. Allah selalu memberkahi keluarga kalian dengan rezeki yang berlimpah yaa. cepat dapat momongan juga. Doakan saya segera menyusulmu, cha. amiin.

We always be best friend forever. and ever. Love You.

from your best friend,

Santi Mallida

Kesel, Senang, Bahagia [all in one]

Haiiii..

(terpaksa) harus memulai postingan ini dengan judul yang campur aduk seperti itu. Too much things happens at once. Let me tell you one by one:

firstly, aku keseeeellll buanget karena hampir seminggu ini blog ini gak bisa dibuka gara-gara ada Linkbucks yang nge-block jadi gak bisa masuk ke blognya. I have tried so many ways to open it directly, but it ended with those stupid ads. I really hate it. Fortunately, today maybe it's my lucky day. I can open it easily. and I hope it will going well later. Gak tau kenapa tiba2 bisa ada linkbucks seperti itu. waktu dicari di internet cara menghapusnya, aku ketemu salah satu blog yang bilang cara menghapusnya dengan pake spyhunter. Finally, I downloaded it and tried to scan the viruses. and you know what, in fact, there were so many viruses attacked my laptop, perhaps it is why the blog also can not be opened. I really hope it will not happened anymore. I hate it so much..

secondly, let's ended the upset story here. Aku juga senang banget, karena beberapa hal. yang pertama dapat berita bagus dari sahabat, temen SMA sejak kelas 1, Sitti Khadijah, a.k.a Icha. She's getting married. yaaayyy.. I was really shocked when she came to my boarding house and gave my her wedding invitation and told me to come. I really didn't know how to say it. I was happy but shocked as well. but torely it  really makes me feel moved. i was so touched at that time. and Finally the day had come on October 20th. I'll tell you another story happened before it in the next ya..

Aku juga senang karena akhirnya Isna wisuda juga. she finished her study in a kind of short time of study. only took 3 years and 8 months. She is cumlaude also. I proud of her. congrats, sissy.

congrats,sist!

three beautiful women, mom, mama tima, and me

and a handsome man, daddy.

dan Aku bahagia karenaaa,,, I can meet mom and dad. they come to attend the graduation. they came on my birthday on Oct 16. finally I can celebrate my birthday with my parents after almost 6 years I am going so far away from home, especially on my 24th birthday. I was so happy..indeed. 

Let's finish the sadness with the happiness, because life is only once. You will regret it if you never enjoy your life. 

Thank you..

-SM-

Happy Birthday to Me!

Happy Birthday, Happy 24th..
I always wish the best, selalu menjadi yang terbaik untuk orang-orang terkasih. Lebih baik lgi di umur yang seharusnya sudah lebih matang.. Selalu berusaha menjadi yang terbaik tentunya.
yang jelas aku selalu berusaha untuk menjadi lebih baik dan lebih baik lagi disetiap berkurangnya sisa hidupku di dunia. selalu berusaha memperbaiki diri.
Doakan semoga semua urusanku dipermudah dan dilancarkan yaaa... terimakasih semua doanya,, baik lewat facebook, lewat twitter, lewat email, Skype, telepon, sms, dan juga yang mendoakan dari jauh. terimakasih sekali lagi.
oh ya, dapat ucapan selamat ulang tahun dari Google+.. apa cuma di screen ku aja yang bentuknya kayak gini yaa,, ahaaa senang banget dan berharap di screen semua komputer di dunia seperti ini..hehehe terimakasih google+.. u really made my day ^ ^
ah berharap bisa upload ucapan selamat dari google,tapi gak tau gimana caranya. :( it's okay,, link nya aja deh yaa.. hehe


salam,
Santi Mallida

[be] My October [please?]

Finally, October has coming ^ ^
I was so excited to know that my month has already come. sekarang udah tanggal 5, tinggal 11 hari lagi.
hehehehe yep that's right, My birthday. I really love October. Really love it!!

Gak cuma aku yang ulang tahun bulan ini, ada kakak yang ulang taun tanggal 11, Isna ulang tahun tanggal 20, Clara- my old friend- tanggal 25, Anin- temen baikku- tanggal 26, dan Dica- one of my friend- tanggal 29. Ramaaiii sekali rupanya yang ulang tahun bulan ini. Oh ya, malahan di tanggal yang sama nanti aku berdua sama temen dari Pascasarjana UGM sama-sama ulang tahun. She is Suci Sumbawati, although she is younger than me, yet we have the same date. what a surprise!!

Besides, gak cuma a happy event that I'll face within this month, but a shocking one as well. A little bit nervous because at the end of the month, I will have a presentation about my Theses proposal. Oh Nooooo  I really wish that I will be given a chance to finish it before the due date. Ya I try my best. But you know, sometimes it hard to do when you feel bored and don't have any spirit.
I am sure that nothing is impossible. I always believe it.
Pokoknya, make a wish kali ini cuma satu, berusaha dan berharap yang terbaik untuk hasil yang terbaik juga buat proposalku. Sementara ini proses mengerjakannya kadang tertunda dengan hal-hal yang gak penting yang berujung pada penyesalan diakhir. too much ado about nothing!! Poor me! I still cannot manage my time well.

By the way, Ulang tahun kali ini dapat hadiah dari siapa ya? uhmm dapat hadiah apa yaa??
*berharap dapat kado*


Sekian,

-SM-